The Angels Relationships
Submitted by Christianne
The Angels of ‘Lotogi’
Beloved,
The longevity of love between friends, lovers, and spouses is dependent on the wisdom of the heart. The divine virtues of the letters of our name, ‘Lotogi’, nourish loving relationships that deepen and grow.
Divine Providence through these virtues teaches people to nurture relationships and keep them healthy and beautiful. The virtues of feeling the divine in others, harmony and justice, high inspiration, grace and mercy, and mastery of cause and effect are the glue which holds mates and friends in loving relationships that grow in perfection over time.
New skills that teach couples how to interact respectfully are being made available to heal their relationships and finally resolve the pain from long term emotional traumas that have rendered them dangerous to one another.
State of the art knowledge about relationships is still in its infancy on earth. Ineffective and self-defeating relationship guidelines and child rearing practices have been passed down for generations on earth.
"The sins of the fathers are passed along even unto seven generations."
The underlying difficulty for most people has been numbing out. Because of the rapid pace of life, accelerated rate of change with attendant loss and wounding, and resultant pressure to adapt to sudden reversals, vast numbers of people have had to deaden themselves to their painful emotions, or turn to substance use or other coping measures.
Numbing out to pain means deadening to loving feelings also.
Insensitivity to the partner, "emotional novocaine", resulting in emotional "bull in china closet" syndrome, has made partners feel unsafe and at risk when opening to the deep loving feelings of the inner child.
The truth is that establishing a safe and supportive environment for love to flourish requires skills that many people have never seen modeled and did not grow up with.
For example, set aside time for at least one session every week, in which you and your partner look closely at all your feelings in a safe context. Spend an hour letting your mate tell you honestly, without interruption or judgement, what is really going on with them inside their hearts. Then, take your turn, and express your own feelings, with the same safety and respect. Feelings have different laws than thoughts. Feelings often have deep roots in the past, and seem irrational to present time analysis.
If deep tears, or anger, or fear comes up, this is the healing process in its most intense and fruitful phase. Do not interrupt or try to "fix it". Let these intense feelings flow. It is their flowing that "fixes" them. Feelings change when they flow. Feelings are the water element, and like water, when they flow freely they stay clean and pure. When feelings flow, high inspiration and healing insights occur. That is why healing must come from within a person. Advice from the outside, no matter how well intentioned, can never replace the profound insights that come from within. Advice from the outside usually interrupts the flowing of emotions and the natural process of healing inspiration from within.
Invoke grace and mercy and allow negative emotions to run their course through honest expression safely, lovingly, and non-destructively. When positive feelings are expressing, they become even more beautiful.
Learning new methods for overcoming emotional wounding and reawakening the pure inner child requires a belief that this is possible. It also requires a commitment to uncover traumas which seemed safely buried and forgotten.
The main change in consciousness required is a paradigm shift from resisting "negative" feelings and reacting against them as the enemy to be overcome to approaching all feelings with unconditional love and mercy.
In the past, fear of negative emotions has seemed so overpowering—like fear of the unknown—that emotions have seemed unconfrontable. Every attempt has been made to dampen down uncomfortable feelings and "make them go away". People were afraid of what they might do if they allowed themselves to feel their deepest pain.
Even people on the spiritual path used meditational techniques to "bypass" or disassociate from their wounded emotional nature. This has resulted in people with multiple selves, some parts of the self being very high and beautiful and others perhaps scared, insecure, or angry. When a part of the emotional nature is denied to the point of being out of awareness, it cannot be healed. When negative emotions are triggered, a goldmine of healing awaits. Negative emotions should be mercifully loved as one would love a small upset child, and encouraged to flow in grace until they are healed.
Efficient methods to transmute pain, re-establish childlike openness and vulnerability, and to resolve relationship issues, are the key to balancing male and female energies on earth.
Emotions are the feminine energy of the heart. These energies are magnetic and attract realities into physical manifestation. Therefore they must be healed, not suppressed, for the earth to see the light of perfection.
Emotions must not be buried; they must not be judged. They must be allowed out into the light of day without shame or condemnation. People who love emotions and learn how they heal, no longer fear the Divine Feminine. At this point the sacred alchemical marriage between fire and water, will and feeling, electricity and magnetism, Masculine and Feminine results in heaven on earth.
For many years, it has become increasingly clear to quantum physicists all over the world that emotions are the causative force behind manifestation. It is through loving their own emotions with grace and mercy that every man, woman, and child will manifest heaven on earth. As they learn to love their own emotions, it is natural to also have mercy and grace toward other people’s emotions.
Fear turns into Love.
It is in the realm of loving relationships that divine virtues bloom.